Finding A Girlfriend
Is it hard to find a girlfriend?
For most young men, plucking up the courage to ask a girl out on a date is hard. There’s the fear of rejection, stumbling for words, and general uncertainty about the whole thing. Yet, in today’s interconnected world, guys no longer need to use the direct approach method as there are many dating sites that allow one to browse singles and send a message anonymously.
However, does this mean that finding a girlfriend has become any easier – or is it still difficult?
This question can be thought of as asking three things:
1). Is it difficult to attract a girlfriend?
2). Is it difficult to make the first move?
3). Is it difficult to find someone who is “up to standard,” so to speak?
As for the first question, it may very well be that attracting a girlfriend has become more difficult – especially in the mid-20s to early-30s range, as many more women are finishing university degrees and opting for careers rather than finding love and starting a family. However, for high school and university age – as well as after a woman is past her early 30s, attracting a girlfriend is not very difficult. As the saying goes, “there’s someone for everyone” and with the ability to go online and instantly talk to hundreds of women, attracting one to be one’s girlfriend is not too hard.
Whether or not making the first move has become any easier or harder …